They are both two important parts of humanity.
They are both equally independent and Responsible to Create and Lead a satisfying happy society. I believe man and woman, need to make equal efforts in reality, to express themselves in order to create a serene society. It takes two courageous, matured and responsible people, a man and a woman, to accept the responsibility, with transparency of truth, loyalty and humbleness, to achieve a peaceful happy life. To create their own financial stability independently, with noble deeds to serve the humanity.
Each of them need to realize their humble objective of life, purpose of life,
they need to contribute whatever they are comfertable with, to achieve satisfaction and happiness in life.
It is very important to be a GOOD and Humble Human-Being before being a, Sister or brother, a mother or a father, a husband or a wife, a friend or a companion.
Being humble is the priority.
Both men and women have equal respect and responsibility.
Neither Women are superior to men, nor a Man is superior to a women.
Humans are respected only when they are HUMBLE and GENTLE.
RESPECT and Dignity is very important in every relationship.
It is improper and a bad attitude to impart EGO of Superiority.
Today's modern woman is independent and capable to lead a self sustained life. To create her own financial security. To support and nurture her entire family.
She has a capacity to lead a respectable life. She has become much calm, gentle and humble with balanced spiritualism and tolerance.
She has become matured and intellectual to create and achieve a noble purpose of life.
She has conquered and is liberated by anger, hatred and frustrations, towards peace, joy and brotherhood, to reform a serene INDIA.
All citizens need to respect each other as brothers and sisters. Caring for each other with Brotherhood. Women must look at other men as her beloved brothers. (This may not completely stop the rape crimes, but at-least to certain extent, can reduce rape crimes.) Similarly men too, must respect other women, as his sisters. Thus may the peace might prevail. Thus each one of us might Help Ever & Hurt Never.
Every Coin has Two sides, positive as well as negative. Apart from the above fact, the true fact is that there are a few manipulative, wicked, in-matured, self-centered, possessive, women with ego of superiority to showoff. There are good as well as bad people. The bad must be transformed into good.
Women have Greater Power as well as Responsibilities.
There is no doubt women are powerful too. They too have immense intelligence. At the same time it is very important to be constructive, to achieve an humble objective of life. To treat everyone with compassion and brotherhood. To be bold enough to stand strong with the rightful ideas, views and persons. In order to serve the mankind and humanity. It is important to appreciate the good ones and to join hands with them to create a better future. To realize by meditation what is good and what is bad. Many Goddesses like Mata Durga, Mata Sita, Mata Saraswati, Mata Laxmi, etc are very good examples of women who are worshiped only because of their immense contribution to serve the humble purpose of humanity. Thus there is nothing wrong in being powerful as long as good purpose is achieved. It is noted in Constitution of Law and Order that maximum rapes of women are a result of the women's rudeness towards the other male persons. Maximum quarrels and robberies in societies are due to broken families which consists of women who may be responsible to provide moral values to her male spouses. Any miss utilization of power by women with manupulations within her family may lead to serious destructive consequences. Thus it is important for women to realize their duty and responsibilities to create a better society.
I have experienced my mothers nature since my childhood. My mother is very adamant, possessive, dominating, dictating, self centered, mentally unstable(with extreme emotions), orthodox(superstitious), manipulative, opportunist, emotional dramatist, sentimental. (Read More Here)
Marriage is an institution of patience, sacrifice, caring for each other and sharing. Our forefathers spoke about Saptapadi --- the seven steps one takes in life and a sense of commitment, co-operation, compassion, caring and less ego. The relationship in marriage can take form either as strength or as a weakness depending on the mind.
If the mind is strong then relationships can be like a gift to us, but if the mind is weak and not in control, then relationships can feel like bondage. If you hold each other's necks, it will feel like bondage. If you walk together, shoulder-to-shoulder with each other, it will feel like a support. So be a companion to each other and move forward.
Here is a nice video I came across while surfing ArtOfLiving,
The Secret of Relationships - by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
- Coverage by News 9
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pmmdbC__D8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sDCtq4yUErA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWEkitLbfTw
While I was watching this nice video, while Guruji talks about relationships between Husband and Wife. Guruji explains do's and dont's for both men and women. While I was watching this video I started wondering why was Guruji still not married? Similarly, many Famous Indian Leaders like, Anna Hazare ji, Atal Bihari Vajpayee ji, Maulana Abul Kalam ji, Sri Sri Guruji, and many more have not married. I was just wondering what would be the reason for them to be single. It is natural for men to marry, as marriage is considered to be a respectable and sacred relationship. Also being said that it is continued from one life to another, from soul to soul. As Hindu religion considers the role models of Radhe Krishna, Ram Sita, Shiva Parvati, etc. Our youngsters do need role-models of successful married couples, so that they can learn form them, to lead a satisfying and happier life.
Not only in India, but in the entire world, and also the entire human evolution, right from Adam and Eve, Marriage is denoted as the most respectable relationship between man and women to attain salvation.
Every Indian woman is pious and worships her husband with divinity. Even Guruji explains the same concept. But after all this why would Guruji not marry? is the question pondering.
Ram Katha Program in London in Spring 2002
- 28 Aug 11
http://www.jaisiyaram.com/blog/my-life/8784-ram-katha-program-in-london-in-spring-2002-28-aug-11.html
I feel sorry for the folks who are blessed with an opportunity to live in these rich and highly developed countries. I feel sorry when they do not realize their good purpose of life. When they do not realize their humble responsibility and duty to heal and cure the entire humanity. It is wrong for them to easily get carried away with destructive desires of infatuations. They are not only destroying themselves but are also trying to spoil all others surrounding them in that atmosphere, by propagating such vibrations of unwanted and unnecessary passion and sexual arousal. It is as well quite common for someone with a stronger will power to overcome this and to realize the truth of reality. We have already read in scriptures how sage swami Vishwamitra was deceived and diverted by Menaka, in order to divert his concentration while at penance. When this can happen with a great sage, then why not with an ordinary common man.
Article: Individualism in America - People uniting in Emergency Situations like in Hurricane Irene - 29 Aug 1
http://www.jaisiyaram.com/blog/nature/8791-individualism-in-america-people-uniting-in-emergency-situations-like-in-hurricane-irene-29-aug-11.html
Love is the strongest power on Earth. We tend to create our personality depending upon the principles we adopt, thus we tend to visualize our ideas. We are all different individuals with different views and principles. We feel comfortable when we connect or interact with individuals with similar Philosophies, Eros and agape's. Anger, hatred and frustrations are destructive. Where as love, compassion and brotherhood are constructive. Everything is contagious, thus conversion of destructive towards constructive is necessary for humanity.
Each of them need to realize their humble objective of life, purpose of life,
they need to contribute whatever they are comfertable with, to achieve satisfaction and happiness in life.
It is very important to be a GOOD and Humble Human-Being before being a, Sister or brother, a mother or a father, a husband or a wife, a friend or a companion.
Being humble is the priority.
Both men and women have equal respect and responsibility.
Neither Women are superior to men, nor a Man is superior to a women.
Humans are respected only when they are HUMBLE and GENTLE.
RESPECT and Dignity is very important in every relationship.
It is improper and a bad attitude to impart EGO of Superiority.
Today's modern woman is independent and capable to lead a self sustained life. To create her own financial security. To support and nurture her entire family.
She has a capacity to lead a respectable life. She has become much calm, gentle and humble with balanced spiritualism and tolerance.
She has become matured and intellectual to create and achieve a noble purpose of life.
She has conquered and is liberated by anger, hatred and frustrations, towards peace, joy and brotherhood, to reform a serene INDIA.
Web Link:
https://goo.gl/a98x8Z
http://bitter-truth-manoj-kumar-kargudri.blogspot.com/2012/07/women-have-greater-power-as-well-as.html
https://goo.gl/a98x8Z
http://bitter-truth-manoj-kumar-kargudri.blogspot.com/2012/07/women-have-greater-power-as-well-as.html
All citizens need to respect each other as brothers and sisters. Caring for each other with Brotherhood. Women must look at other men as her beloved brothers. (This may not completely stop the rape crimes, but at-least to certain extent, can reduce rape crimes.) Similarly men too, must respect other women, as his sisters. Thus may the peace might prevail. Thus each one of us might Help Ever & Hurt Never.
Every Coin has Two sides, positive as well as negative. Apart from the above fact, the true fact is that there are a few manipulative, wicked, in-matured, self-centered, possessive, women with ego of superiority to showoff. There are good as well as bad people. The bad must be transformed into good.
Here is a very nice song "Ye Jo Mohabbat Hai" by "Kishore Kumar".
http://songs-truth-life-manoj-kargudri.blogspot.in/2013/01/ye-jo-mohabbat.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ZqgvAWEdhs
In this song, the Artist describes the attitude of women.
He says that the women expects her man, to die on her behalf.
(in hindi: "mar jaye, mit jaye, ho jaye badnam")
And she expects him to loose his respect, by spoiling his character.
It defines women's attitude, desire to control her man.
She expects him to be her slave, to die on her behalf.
To lose his self respect, status and reputation in the society.
By doing so she intends to attain respect and admiration of others in society.
She expects to attain her dignity by destroying her man. Which is absolutely wrong and inadvisable.
It also signifies a women's attitude of possessiveness, dominance and manipulative behavior, which is materialistic and destructive.
When a man Loves a women she tries to take advantage of his weakness. Instead of appreciating him, she tries to blackmail him.
Thus the man refuses to love women.
It is definitely appreciated if women would look at her man as one of her good friends, with equal respect and understanding.
Without expecting him to die on her behalf, or to lose his respect on her behalf.
This kind of behavior, attitude and expectations of women, towards her man may destroy his psychological balance.
It may destroy his self-respect and individuality, leading to frustrations.
Thus the man in-order to cope up with such emotional disrespect may land up with addictions of alcohol, tobacco, drugs, etc.
This may lead to his destruction.
It is thus advisable to women not to expect her man to be her slave.
In-order to maintain equal respect and dignity, to look at him as a respectable human being.
Rather than a slave, or as an object to satisfy her evil desire.
This kind of attitude in women is responsible for destroying the value of sacred LOVE between a man and a women. The man in this song is AFRAID to fall in LOVE.
Love is the strongest power on earth, which can heal, cure and motivate humans.
At the same time it can be dangerous and destructive if manipulated and misused to achieve her selfish motive.
Few women expect her man to create huge amount of wealth, so that she can enjoy the ego of superiority in the materialistic society, which is absolutely wrong.
They expect her man to fulfill all her possessive desires.
http://songs-truth-life-manoj-kargudri.blogspot.in/2013/01/ye-jo-mohabbat.html
In this song, the Artist describes the attitude of women.
He says that the women expects her man, to die on her behalf.
(in hindi: "mar jaye, mit jaye, ho jaye badnam")
And she expects him to loose his respect, by spoiling his character.
It defines women's attitude, desire to control her man.
She expects him to be her slave, to die on her behalf.
To lose his self respect, status and reputation in the society.
By doing so she intends to attain respect and admiration of others in society.
She expects to attain her dignity by destroying her man. Which is absolutely wrong and inadvisable.
It also signifies a women's attitude of possessiveness, dominance and manipulative behavior, which is materialistic and destructive.
When a man Loves a women she tries to take advantage of his weakness. Instead of appreciating him, she tries to blackmail him.
Thus the man refuses to love women.
It is definitely appreciated if women would look at her man as one of her good friends, with equal respect and understanding.
Without expecting him to die on her behalf, or to lose his respect on her behalf.
This kind of behavior, attitude and expectations of women, towards her man may destroy his psychological balance.
It may destroy his self-respect and individuality, leading to frustrations.
Thus the man in-order to cope up with such emotional disrespect may land up with addictions of alcohol, tobacco, drugs, etc.
This may lead to his destruction.
It is thus advisable to women not to expect her man to be her slave.
In-order to maintain equal respect and dignity, to look at him as a respectable human being.
Rather than a slave, or as an object to satisfy her evil desire.
This kind of attitude in women is responsible for destroying the value of sacred LOVE between a man and a women. The man in this song is AFRAID to fall in LOVE.
Love is the strongest power on earth, which can heal, cure and motivate humans.
At the same time it can be dangerous and destructive if manipulated and misused to achieve her selfish motive.
Few women expect her man to create huge amount of wealth, so that she can enjoy the ego of superiority in the materialistic society, which is absolutely wrong.
They expect her man to fulfill all her possessive desires.
Web Link:
https://goo.gl/a98x8Z
http://bitter-truth-manoj-kumar-kargudri.blogspot.com/2012/07/women-have-greater-power-as-well-as.html
https://goo.gl/a98x8Z
http://bitter-truth-manoj-kumar-kargudri.blogspot.com/2012/07/women-have-greater-power-as-well-as.html
Women have Greater Power as well as Responsibilities.
There is no doubt women are powerful too. They too have immense intelligence. At the same time it is very important to be constructive, to achieve an humble objective of life. To treat everyone with compassion and brotherhood. To be bold enough to stand strong with the rightful ideas, views and persons. In order to serve the mankind and humanity. It is important to appreciate the good ones and to join hands with them to create a better future. To realize by meditation what is good and what is bad. Many Goddesses like Mata Durga, Mata Sita, Mata Saraswati, Mata Laxmi, etc are very good examples of women who are worshiped only because of their immense contribution to serve the humble purpose of humanity. Thus there is nothing wrong in being powerful as long as good purpose is achieved. It is noted in Constitution of Law and Order that maximum rapes of women are a result of the women's rudeness towards the other male persons. Maximum quarrels and robberies in societies are due to broken families which consists of women who may be responsible to provide moral values to her male spouses. Any miss utilization of power by women with manupulations within her family may lead to serious destructive consequences. Thus it is important for women to realize their duty and responsibilities to create a better society.
I have experienced my mothers nature since my childhood. My mother is very adamant, possessive, dominating, dictating, self centered, mentally unstable(with extreme emotions), orthodox(superstitious), manipulative, opportunist, emotional dramatist, sentimental. (Read More Here)
Marriage is an institution of patience, sacrifice, caring for each other and sharing. Our forefathers spoke about Saptapadi --- the seven steps one takes in life and a sense of commitment, co-operation, compassion, caring and less ego. The relationship in marriage can take form either as strength or as a weakness depending on the mind.
If the mind is strong then relationships can be like a gift to us, but if the mind is weak and not in control, then relationships can feel like bondage. If you hold each other's necks, it will feel like bondage. If you walk together, shoulder-to-shoulder with each other, it will feel like a support. So be a companion to each other and move forward.
Here is a nice video I came across while surfing ArtOfLiving,
The Secret of Relationships - by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
- Coverage by News 9
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pmmdbC__D8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sDCtq4yUErA
While I was watching this nice video, while Guruji talks about relationships between Husband and Wife. Guruji explains do's and dont's for both men and women. While I was watching this video I started wondering why was Guruji still not married? Similarly, many Famous Indian Leaders like, Anna Hazare ji, Atal Bihari Vajpayee ji, Maulana Abul Kalam ji, Sri Sri Guruji, and many more have not married. I was just wondering what would be the reason for them to be single. It is natural for men to marry, as marriage is considered to be a respectable and sacred relationship. Also being said that it is continued from one life to another, from soul to soul. As Hindu religion considers the role models of Radhe Krishna, Ram Sita, Shiva Parvati, etc. Our youngsters do need role-models of successful married couples, so that they can learn form them, to lead a satisfying and happier life.
Not only in India, but in the entire world, and also the entire human evolution, right from Adam and Eve, Marriage is denoted as the most respectable relationship between man and women to attain salvation.
Every Indian woman is pious and worships her husband with divinity. Even Guruji explains the same concept. But after all this why would Guruji not marry? is the question pondering.
http://sam131141510beautiful.blogspot.in/2006/06/love-in-different-forms.html
Ram Katha Program in London in Spring 2002
- 28 Aug 11
http://www.jaisiyaram.com/blog/my-life/8784-ram-katha-program-in-london-in-spring-2002-28-aug-11.html
I feel sorry for the folks who are blessed with an opportunity to live in these rich and highly developed countries. I feel sorry when they do not realize their good purpose of life. When they do not realize their humble responsibility and duty to heal and cure the entire humanity. It is wrong for them to easily get carried away with destructive desires of infatuations. They are not only destroying themselves but are also trying to spoil all others surrounding them in that atmosphere, by propagating such vibrations of unwanted and unnecessary passion and sexual arousal. It is as well quite common for someone with a stronger will power to overcome this and to realize the truth of reality. We have already read in scriptures how sage swami Vishwamitra was deceived and diverted by Menaka, in order to divert his concentration while at penance. When this can happen with a great sage, then why not with an ordinary common man.
Article: Individualism in America - People uniting in Emergency Situations like in Hurricane Irene - 29 Aug 1
http://www.jaisiyaram.com/blog/nature/8791-individualism-in-america-people-uniting-in-emergency-situations-like-in-hurricane-irene-29-aug-11.html
Love is the strongest power on Earth. We tend to create our personality depending upon the principles we adopt, thus we tend to visualize our ideas. We are all different individuals with different views and principles. We feel comfortable when we connect or interact with individuals with similar Philosophies, Eros and agape's. Anger, hatred and frustrations are destructive. Where as love, compassion and brotherhood are constructive. Everything is contagious, thus conversion of destructive towards constructive is necessary for humanity.
Advocate Kunal Sharma, has betrayed me with false promises.
On one hand, justice system is critical for a better nation. Providing law and order to citizens. It's important for citizens to be patriotic, to be caring, helpful and kind to others. With a commitment and passion to provide justice. At the same time there are people who are misusing the power of law, to manipulate with the justice system. Recently I was betrayed by an advocate, who is supposed to provide justice to others by profession.
Advocate Mr Kunal Sharma has betrayed me. This person who is supposed to provide justice is doing injustice himself. Such people are a curse to this great nation.
Read more.
Woman as a wife and mother.
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